The Costa Ricans

Costa Ricans (Ticos) are generally gentle, spirited, friendly, educated, polite, and kind people. Most seem to like visitors from other countries and treat them well. There are, of course, exceptions, but on the whole, you can expect to be made welcome wherever you go. 

Ticos are a mixing of races. Though most of the country’s 4 million inhabitants descend from Spanish immigrants, many families originated in other parts of Europe, Asia, Africa and Central America. A large number are fair-skinned, especially in the Central Valley.  In the outlying areas, more people are mestizos, a mixture of European and Indigenous blood.  On the Caribbean coast you find strong links to African lineage, and in Talamanca Mountain, you will find it inhabited by the pure-blooded Indians of various tribes.

Ticos are extremely family oriented and love music.  When I say love music, I mean it is everywhere all the time... and LOUD.  They also occasional enjoy alcohol.  In fact, Costa Ricans, as almost all Latinos, party loud and long and really enjoy each other's company.  You will definitely know if there is a party in your neighborhood!

If you are married to a Costa Rican or have a Tico(a) as your significant other (pareja), you not only get him or her, you get the whole clan, and in Catholic Costa Rica, that can be a TON of relatives!  Click here for one entry from my personal blog on this subject.

They have the same goals, desires and fears you do. They want to love and be loved, they want their children to be educated, they worry about their teenagers getting tongue rings and tattoos, they worry about the guy their daughter is dating, and they want to thrive and prosper. They want their children to have better lives than they do.  They worry about politics, Iraq, and the economy. Sound familiar?

Ticos are often polite to the extreme. Most will do almost anything to avoid a confrontation or appear rude in any way. This can cause MUCH confusion to foreigners, especially North Americans who tend to be very direct.  If a Tico feels a "no" answer would in any way offend, they may well say "yes" or "maybe", or "I think so" or "that might be difficult", which is still pretty much means "no", but sounds more polite! Easy Huh?

Many visitors, especially from the US, find this a tad difficult to comprehend. We North Americans tend to be direct and straight forward. Those from New York may be even a bit more, ahem, direct. If you plan to live here for any length of time, my suggestion would be to listen carefully, be patient, respect their culture (it's only about 1,000 years OLDER than ours in the US), and act like you are a guest... which you are!  Those who come here to live will be subject to culture shock.  If take few minutes to read our section on culture shock before arriving and you adjustment to life here will be significantly easier.

What religion is the most popular, and do I have to learn Spanish to live or visit there?

The predominant religion is Catholic. Nearly every town has a Catholic church and many have a football (soccer) field in front of the church!  In Costa Rica, football rules.  There are many spectacular churches here in Costa Rica, some over three hundred years old like the one in this photograph to the right.

The language is Spanish, though many Ticos speak English fairly well. If you are visiting, you won't have to know how to speak Spanish.  If you plan to live here, try to learn Spanish. To do so shows you are respectful of them, their culture, and their country. Always be aware that you will always be a guest, regardless of your residency or citizenship status. Remember too that just because an individual does not speak English does not make him stupid.

Oh, and one other thing. If you DO meet anyone...  a store clerk, waiter, or other person who doesn't speak your language, don't talk louder. It won't help! They are not deaf nor stupid. They just don't speak your language.  They speak theirs.

Why do I see those painted oxcarts everywhere?

If there is a national symbol of Costa Rica, other then the flag, it is the oxcart.  Oxcarts were used to haul coffee and other items to market in the early days of Costa Rica.  Even today, on rural back roads, you will see an occasional country person (campasino) driving an oxcart (with oxen!).  They also appear in every parade, horse show (tope), and festivals.  Most are hand painted as is the one in this photo.

Most tourist spots sell them to be shipped back 'home' for use in homes.  Some have been converted to dry bars.

Why are they called Ticos?

Ticos is the common name Costa Ricans refer to themselves.  More specifically, a Tica is a female Costa Rican and a Tico is a male. 

The name comes from a preference Ticos have of using the diminutive in their speech.  By diminutive, I mean they change everything so it means 'little something'.  For instance, a Tico might call his grandmother (abuela),  abuelita, or her house (casa) her casita.  A kiss (beso) becomes a besito!  This goes on and on and covers almost everything.  In fact, it makes learning Costa Rica style Spanish a bit harder as you have to learn these diminutives even if you don't use them.  So why Tico?  Because many people pronounced the diminutive saying  momentito (meaning just a short moment), as "momentico".  I seldom hear the old ...ico thing any more, but the ...ito or ...ita thing is alive and well.

Why do Latinos always look so dangerous?   (I get asked this a LOT!)

To whom?  North Americans?  They certainly don't look dangerous to each other! 

Here is my personal opinion:  I blame it on Hollywood! For many years, the 'bad guys' in movies and on TV always were the dark, swarthy types.  Heavy 5 o'clock shadow, black hair, often dark clothing, dark complexions, etc.  In other words, Latin!  The good guys always were clean shaven, wore white and generally looked... well... like North Americans. Now this has changed a bit in recent years, but I think we have trained ourselves to look for the bad guy image. 

When we see it, we get nervous.  Ignore it.